Yesterday you discovered the word "no" and today you perfected it. Not only that, but you have been delivering it in a way that makes me cringe becasue you scream it, in a very rude way.
Let's have some dinner, Noah.
"NO!"Ok, let's pick up our toys.
"NAH!"Do you think you could have a good attitude at church tonight so that Mommy and Daddy can sit through the service for once in 2 months?
"NO NO NO!"So, I guess we're
there. At the place where most people would say the "terrible two's" (although you are quite a few months from actually being two). I hate that phrase and I will never say that about you, because I don't think that there is anything terrible about you. But I will say that we're at a challenging stage where your dad and I have just started scratching our heads thinking "ok, what now?".
You have been an incredible baby, and I am so grateful that God gave me you to ease me into Mommyhood. And now we're entering a different stage where there are some new challenges, and that's ok. I'm glad that you're learning boundaries, and I'm glad that we're going through some of this now before your new brother or sister shows up. I'm also glad that you have a strong personality because I know that will protect you one day.
But today was rough. I prayed a lot. It's hard being screamed at all day over silly things and listening to you just walk around and practice saying "NO!" in different inflections and then hear you use them later when you're being defiant.
We'll make it through, and I hold tight to believing that you're an amazing little guy who is going to do big things and love Jesus. Your dad and I love you so much, and I know that we have many battles and challenges ahead of us, but we never want to set you up for failure by giving into these tantrums. So just know that on the days that your bottom is a little sore, or your hand is kind of red... it's because we love you and we want to train you to be a good boy who respects people and is kind in his responses.
Oh, and also know, your dad and I will ALWAYS win.